Days of Summer

"I don't know, I just woke up one day in the morning and understand what about love. ... What if I wasn't at the coffee club at that time? What if he has not walked over to ask me about the book I was reading? What if I was a minute earlier or an hour later? Will all this occur?... " -500 days of Summer

Well, so as the Chinese saying goes, "天时地理人合" must be right. While watching this show, I felt that Summer should not be messing with his feelings, even though it is true that she had stated the fact that she is not willing to commit to anything and Tom agreed, it just doesn't seem right to play with others' feelings no matter what your beliefs are. Secretly, I hope that the story will turn out to have a happily-ever-after ending, to my dismay, it didn't.

Well lucky for Summer still, at the end, she still believes in love.


I wonder, is love just a feeling that can't be described? What does it take to love someone and be loved?


I am born in the month of summer too! That's gonna be 750 days with Summer.... soon.

心領-i already know.

Ｒ： 或(waak)許(hui)戀(luen)愛(oi)都(do)只(jek/ji)有(yau)煙(yin)火(foh)那(na)刻(hak)的(dik)璀璨，如(yue)此(chi)簡(gaan)單(daan)，快(faai)樂(lok/ngok)不(bat)多(doh)於(yue)一(yat)晚(maan)。 內(noi)心(sam)總(jung)有(yau)限(haan)束(chuk)縛(bok)怎(jam)可(hoh)不(bat)驚(ging)嘆(taan)， 然(yin)後(hau)發(faat)現(yin)情(ching)或(waak)許(hui)轉(juen)淡(daam)。

Ｌ： 越(yuet)討(to)好(ho)你(nei)就(jau)換(woon)來(loi)傷(seung)心(sam)痛(tung)哭(huk)多(doh)一(yat)晚(maan)， 如(yue)此(chi)貪(taam)玩(waan/woon)， 厭(yim)舊(gau)貪(taam)新(san)我(ngoh)心(sam)淡(daam)， 是(si)否(fau)早(jo)注(jue)定(ding)體(tai)貼(tip)都(do)不(bat)會(wooi)得(dak)到(do)稱(ching)讚(jaan)， 怕(pa)熱(yit)愛(oi)已(yi)退(tui)減(gaam) 。

R+L： 谁愿(yuen)稀罕(hon)這(je)愛(oi)情(ching)，從(chung)未(mei)甘(gam)心(sam)因(yan)我(ngoh)轉(juen)性(sing)， 其(kei)實(sat)清(ching)楚(choh)這(je)過(gwoh)程(ching)， 就(jau)算(suen)犧(hei)牲(sang)不(bat)會(wooi)高(go)興(hing)， 已(yi)心(sam)領(ling)。

Ｒ： 什(sam)麼(moh)戀(luen)愛(oi)的(dik)感(gam)覺(gok)始(chi)終(jung)有(yau)它(ta)的(dik)限(haan)期(kei)， 隨(chui)心(sam)歡(foon)喜(hei)， 放(fong)任(yam)心(sam)中(jung)不(bat)止(ji)你(nei)， 受(sau)種(jung)種(jung)責(jaak)備(bei)， 逼(bik)我(ngoh)放(fong)肆(si)敷(foo)衍(hin)你(nei)， 其(kei)實(sat)已(yi)盡(jun)全(chuen)力(lik)喜(hei)歡(foon)你(nei)。

Ｌ： 並(bing)不(bat)必(bit)暗(am)示(si)感(gam)覺(gok)一(yat)早(jo)已(yi)熄(sik)， 多(doh)得(dak)你(nei)， 從(chung)今(gam)天(tin)起(hei)， 我(ngoh)亦(yik)不(bat)稀罕(hon)等(dang)你(nei)， 獨(duk)身(san)的(dik)趣(chui)味(mei)不(bat)怕(pa)即(jik)使(si)抱(po)擁(yung)得(dak)空(hung)氣(hei)， 我(ngoh)亦(yik)懶(laan)去(hui)記(gei)起(hei) ～

Ｒ： 谁愿(yuen)稀罕(hon)這(je)愛(oi)情(ching)

R+L: 從(chung)未(mei)甘(gam)心(sam)因(yan)我(ngoh)轉(juen)性(sing)， 其(kei)實(sat)清(ching)楚(choh)這(je)過(gwoh)程(ching)， 就(jau)算(suen)犧(hei)牲(sang)不(bat)會(wooi)高(go)興(hing)， 已(yi)心(sam)領(ling)。 谁愿(yuen)稀 罕(hon)這(je)愛(oi)情(ching)， 從(chung)未(mei)甘(gam)心(sam)因(yan)我(ngoh)轉(juen)性(sing)。

R: 其(kei)實(sat)清(ching)楚(choh)我(ngoh)知(ji)， 無(mo)謂(wai)去(hui)纏(chin)住(jue)我(ngoh)， 無(mo)謂(wai)再(joi)去(hui)打(da)聽(ting)， 已(yi)心(sam)領(ling) 。

L: 其(kei)實(sat)清(ching)楚(choh)這(je)過(gwoh)程(ching)， 就(jau)算(suen)犧(hei)牲(sang)不(bat)會(wooi)高(go)興(hing)， 已(yi)心(sam)領(ling) 。

R+L: 無(mo)謂(wai)發(faat)現(yin)情(ching)或(waak)許(hui)轉(juen)淡(daam)， 無(mo)謂(wai) 發(faat)現(yin)情(ching)或(waak)許(hui)轉(juen)淡(daam) ～

明天以后- after tomorrow.

泳：曾流行情歌雖則都繼續播
chang lao hang qing goh sui jak dou gai juk bo
可惜今天無緣一起高歌一趟
hoh sik gam tin mou yuen yat hei gou goh yat tong
唱沒結果再合唱亦沒結果
cheong moot git guo zoi hap cheong yik moot git guo

峰：明明以前是我傻
ming ming chong chin si ngo soh
求求你姑息我
kau kau nei goo sik ngo
填詞人替我寫出的痛楚
tin chi yan tai ngo se chut dik tong choh
期望你開口唱吧
kei mong nei hoi hau cheong ba
合唱歌那可得我
hap cheong goh na hoh dak ngo

泳：當初你拋開我（峰：我獨唱一次認錯）
dong choh nei pao hoi ngo (ngo duk cheong yat chi ying cho)
泳：你為何麻木地高歌（峰：唱下去不理為何）
nei wai hoh ma muk dei gou goh (cheong ha hui bat lei wai hoh)
合:消失的激情還要熱播
siu sat dik gik ching wan yiu yit bo
誰人仍然是你記住的一個
sui yan ying yin si nei gei jue dik yat go

泳：失去的戀愛難以勉強
sat hui dik luen ngoi nan yi min keung
峰：開一句聲聽著情歌總能滿足一秒遐想
hoi yat gui sing ting jeuk qing goh jung hoh moon juk yat miu ha siong
峰：日後留戀你的聲線
yat hao lao luen nei dik sing sin
泳：恐怕未放下
hong pa mei fong ha
泳：明日更不堪設想（峰：而我不堪設想）
ming yat gang bat ham chit siong (yi ngo bat ham chit siong)
合：一千句親愛的恐怕時間到了無緣再遇上
yat chin gui chan ngoi dik hong pa si gan dou liu mou yuen yao yu siong
峰：我亦無辦法得到見諒
ngo yik mou ban fat dak dou gin leong
泳：忘掉我聲音以後別惆悵（峰：沉默一刻我在惆悵）
mong diu ngo sing yam yi hao bit chow jeung (cham mak yat hak ngo zoi chow jeung)
合：始終無法合唱
chi chong mou fat hap cheong

峰：祈求回頭亦太難如何唱多一晚 無人饒恕我比悲歌更慘
gei kau wooi tao yik tai nan yu hoh cheong doh yat man mok yan yu sue ngo bei bei goh gang cham
泳：其實你分手以後這一天已心淡
kei sat nei fan sau yi hao ze yat tin yi ging sam tam
峰：當初你拋開我我獨唱一次認錯
dong choh nei pao hoi ngo ngo duk cheong yat chi ying cho
泳：你為何麻木地高歌
nei wai hoh ma muk dei gou go
合：消失的激情還要熱播 誰人仍然是你記住的一個
siu sat dik gik ching wan yiu yit bo sui yan ying yin si nei gei jue dik yat go

泳：你要試著放低我
nei yiu si jeuk fong dai ngo
峰：我怕我以後還是唱沒結果（泳：已是結果）
ngo pa ngo yi hao wan si cheong moot git guo (yi si git guo)
合：以後得一個
yi hao dak yat go

this gotta be my fav.

Ladies and Gentlemen of the class of '99...

WEAR SUNSCREEN

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it. The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience…I will dispense this advice now.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth;
Oh never mind, you will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.
But trust me, in 20 years you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked…
You're not as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future;
Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum.
The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind;
The kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing everyday that scares you

SING

DON'T be reckless with other people's hearts;
DON'T put up with people who are reckless with yours.

FLOSS

Don't waste your time on jealousy;
Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind…
The race is long, and in the end, IT'S ONLY WITH YOURSELF.

REMEMBER the compliments you receive;
FORGET the insults;
If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements.

STRETCH

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life…
The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives…
Some of the most interesting 40 year olds know still don't.

Get plenty of CALCIUM.

Be KIND to your knees;
You'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't;
Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't;
Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary…
What ever you do, don't CONGRATULATE yourself too much or BERATE yourself either
– your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's.

Enjoy your body, use it every way you can…
Don't be afraid of it, or what other people think of it;
It's the GREATEST INSTRUMENT you'll ever own..

DANCE…
Even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room.

Read the directions, even if you don't follow them.

DO NOT read beauty magazines;
They will only make you feel ugly.

(Brother and sister together we'll make it through
Someday your spirit will take you and guide you there
I know you've been hurting, and I know I've been waiting to be there
for you. And I'll be there just helping you out, whenever I can.
Everybody's free oh yeah
oh everybody's free oh yeah.)

Get to KNOW your PARENTS;
You never know when they'll be gone for good.

Be NICE to your SIBLINGS;
They are the best link to your past;
And the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go;
But for the precious few you should hold on.
Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography in lifestyle;
Because the older you get, the more you need the people you knew when you were young.

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard;
Live in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft.

TRAVEL.

Accept certain inalienable truths;
Prices will rise, politicians will philander;
You too will get old, and when you do,
You'll fantasize that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were noble and children respected their elders.

RESPECT your ELDERS.

DON'T expect anyone else to support you.
Maybe you have a trust fund;
Maybe you have a wealthy spouse;
But you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair;
Or by the time it's 40, it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy but;
Be patient with those who supply it.
Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.

But trust me on the sunscreen...


this is it all, what i wanna say it to everyone.

this game is getting hot.

It is just, a game. A no-brainer game. Well, true in a way. Probably it doesnt requires more than 1/100th of the brain juice we used for solving our engineering problems, but believe it anot, while making any decision, those millions of neurons are still very active.

Nevermind if this game leaves you with no choice but to choose, dun deny the fact that for even a second, we imagine, we fantasize about which gal/guy we are gonna sleep with or marry.. and then we make a decision. If not, why her/him and not the others?

Does that constituent to living life to the fullest? Is life that boring that we need to indulge in such games? Then why not just have as many flings as your body can take you.. no commitments, just pure fun and pleasure.

I am thankful..... However, at the same time, I am a little upset; I feel disrespected; I feel insulted; I feel like a fool; I pity the list of others too because after making those decisions, we (maybe) laughed at them.

Oh wells, it is just a game after all.. But allow me to experience those emotion waves..

I am okay already.

somewhere only we know.

Lyrics | Keane lyrics - Somewhere Only We Know lyrics

so why dont we, go somewhere only we know?

Sometimes we just are able to relate things/places to people that have, one way or another touched us; be it in a good way, bad way, stupid way, humorous way etc... we do. That is how amazing those neurons in our brain works, wonders!

transformation of the mind.

mind training: it take times because we-- it took time for all those faults in our minds the tendencies to build up, so it will take time to unfold them again as well.

habits of happiness.